OK,
so after testing my outback friends computer and cord it worked again.
As Cam says. mine is SSM
we used SSMfree with a VAG-COM 409 cable with FT232RL chip Diagnostic.
just like this one
http://www.ebay.com/...e-/221233244179
which unfortunately means i do not have OBD2...
thanks heaps for the help.
Snowball555 i probably dont need to come and use your readers now.
Suby Happens i hope this helps you.
thanks to all.
i just need to get a new car
cheers