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[Zac]

Inaction might also come across to her that you don't care enough to do something about it Zaccy boy.

Just a thought mate but if you carry on as if nothing is out of the ordinary it might send a bad message to her.... women think far into these things mate.

Well she did make dinner for me last night, and text me to ask when I was coming home... then she texts me on the train asking me if I was angry... lol... I just replied no... coz I don't want to be that angry guy.. I've been angry for a while.. been depressed and down, and it doesn't help... makes her angrier because she thinks I'm looking for pity... but anyways, she knows she is killing me here with this shit, but I'm going to just take it like a man, I know I have issues and I'm sorting them out, if she doesn't care, nothing I can do

Its from Batman. 

 

Haha

I know dude... Dark Knight... But I'll steal it anyways...

 

Been watching to many movies on the weekend... seen R.I.P.D, Elysium, Dead in Tombstone, Pacific Rim and Curse of Chucky....

[Shaz]

Mate, sometimes you need to be the bad guy. Its good having the best of intentions to be the good guy all the time, but sometimes, the girl will need to be the good guy, and you need to assume the role of the bad guy. Otherwise, she will just feel like the bad guy the whole time. 

 

Been watching to many movies on the weekend... seen R.I.P.D, Elysium, Dead in Tombstone, Pacific Rim and Curse of Chucky....

 

What was RIPD and Elysium like. I've seen Pacific Rim, and not really interested in the others. 

[Zac]

Lol! Nice advice Shaz... I'll see if I can apply that to the situation... she thinks I've been the bad guy the whole time and she has just been putting up with it, but not anymore... like I said, I don't think I'm a good guy, I have my flaws, but I try to be as good as I can... anyways..

 

I'd watch that Scooby Doo movie...

[Shaz]

And thats not a bad thing mate. 

 

I dont know what specifically the problem is here, so I can only offer general advice, but as a rule of thumb, tell her what she needs to hear, whether you agree with it or not, and move on. 

 

Whatever it is Sack, I'm sure it isn't an issue big enough to destroy a marriage and a joint child.

[B4TT]

Fucking Walts is here!

What's happening Cubt?

[Adam]

Mate, sometimes you need to be the bad guy. Its good having the best of intentions to be the good guy all the time, but sometimes, the girl will need to be the good guy, and you need to assume the role of the bad guy. Otherwise, she will just feel like the bad guy the whole time. 

My brain go bang

[Zac]

And thats not a bad thing mate. 

 

I dont know what specifically the problem is here, so I can only offer general advice, but as a rule of thumb, tell her what she needs to hear, whether you agree with it or not, and move on. 

 

Whatever it is Sack, I'm sure it isn't an issue big enough to destroy a marriage and a joint child.

Thanks mate... been doing my best, telling her what I need to, doing what I have to... but like I said, I don't think she cares...

 

To anyone else, the issue might not be as bad, but it is to her it seems... and yeah, to her, it is enough to destroy the marriage and ruin the child's life... I've been trying my best, but its almost impossible when only 1 person is trying...

 

Anyways... how's the money industry?

[Adam]

Fucking hate it when cubts come hunting me down in the shitter.

Seriously, can't it wait 5 fucking minutes!

[Zac]

forking hate it when cubts come hunting me down in the shitter.

Seriously, can't it wait 5 forking minutes!

Seriously? They hunt you down?

 

I've had my team lead call me for a meeting while I was on another call outside the office... lol

[B4TT]

forking hate it when cubts come hunting me down in the shitter.

Seriously, can't it wait 5 forking minutes!

You have more than enough grounds to tell them to go fuck themselves with a lit oxy-acetylene torch.

[Shaz]

My brain go bang

 

lel

You have more than enough grounds to tell them to go themselves with a lit oxy-acetylene torch.

 

Give them a pat on the face with a crowbar

[Shaz]

Thanks mate... been doing my best, telling her what I need to, doing what I have to... but like I said, I don't think she cares...

 

To anyone else, the issue might not be as bad, but it is to her it seems... and yeah, to her, it is enough to destroy the marriage and ruin the child's life... I've been trying my best, but its almost impossible when only 1 person is trying...

 

Anyways... how's the money industry?

 

Yeah right. Well again man, without specifics, I can't really offer anymore advice other then chin up. 

 

Money industry is okay. 2 audits in 2 weeks, both failed, which gives me a FUCKLOAD of work to do. Hence why I've not been on GT as much. 

[Zac]

Yeah noticed not much Shazness on the forums lately... sucks about the audits failing... who did the audits if you don't mind me asking?

[Shaz]

We have state office auditors fly up from Melbourne head office to do independant audits.

 

These results aren't really reflective of me though, as I've only just taken over the branches. But still, a shitty result.

[Scuba-Roo]

Haha... wow... scuba mark.. da faq is up with that chick... she is nuts bro... asking you that question just as a pick me up... to make herself feel good... and then she deleted you... twit... too bad you couldn't tell her what you really wanted to... chick needs a good kick of reality and the truth... but you're a nice guy... stay away from such chicks...

Haha yerp!

[Zac]

We have state office auditors fly up from Melbourne head office to do independant audits.

 

These results aren't really reflective of me though, as I've only just taken over the branches. But still, a shitty result.

Ahhh... thats ok then... we I used to work for KPMG and they used to audit so many places... and where I'm working now, we get audited quite a bit too... doesn't seem like fun... but it must be stressful when working in finance... looks like you have a big job ahead of you.. but that is why you earn the big bucks.

[Morgan]

Sounds complicated, Zac. Don't give up though.

Send her a text today telling her you love/miss her and you're looking forward to seeing her tonight. Suggest going to a park or something as a family after work.

/mushy

[Tim.]

stay strong Zac. Thank we have the GT. We may not be real, but it can really help sometimes to have eMates.

 

If you're ever in Adelaide, there's a beer with your name on it champ.

[skillionaire]

BLOODY KIWIS

[Zac]

Sounds complicated, Zac. Don't give up though.

Send her a text today telling her you love/miss her and you're looking forward to seeing her tonight. Suggest going to a park or something as a family after work.

/mushy

Thanks man... I don't think that will work, I know her a little better than that, but maybe eventually, I might give that a go.

 

stay strong Zac. Thank we have the GT. We may not be real, but it can really help sometimes to have eMates.

 

If you're ever in Adelaide, there's a beer with your name on it champ.

Thanks dude... and you guys are real... LOL!

 

BLOODY KIWIS

^^^ This... lol