apologies nik
Oh geez, bro! Don't apologise!
She is being annoying, and biting back, and full disclosure to my GT crew - I sent her two private messages on there and she has not replied to me, so she doesn't actually want to come to the party - so I guess it's brick walls all around. I showed her how to navigate to the real forum, and to the official SC FB page.
Deal done.
Case closed.