I don't think you will really feel all that bad, well I didn't in the Philippines, you realise it is just how shit is there... I was waiting in the car at this place called Jolly Bee (it is one of their big fast food chains) while waiting for the others to get there shit and come back to the car, meanwhile this little kid probably about 5 or 6 and dirty as all
comes standing at the window and tapping on it and putting on a sad face and holding his hand out for money.... I didn't know what to do.....So I told him to
off (maybe not in those words), and he just tapped on the window again and did the same shit... so I got angry at him and told him to
off again and get a job at which time the dude who was driving us around (whose house we were staying at) reminded me that the real poor ones don't usually speak English and he said that I did the right thing by not giving him money because apparently he probably wouldn't have been able to keep the money any way, it would have gone back to an older dude who sends the young ones out on begging runs on his behalf. Pretty
'ed up really.
I know about these kinds of stories dude... friend went to India with his sister, and he was somewhere and she had a kid come up to her and ask for money. She felt bad, so give the kid something, and then out of nowhere, she was swarmed by like 20 kids pulling at her asking her for money. My friend ran back to his sister and shooed the kids away, and she realised her phone and some money she had in her pocket were gone. So bad...
Like in the movie Slumdog Millionaire, the older bad guys will blind kids on purpose to make them look more pitiful...
This is a messed up world...
I'd rather just go somewhere to relax, have some good food and see some tradition... recommendations?
Bali for price & food. So cheap.
Thialand for beauty and relaxation.
Ahhh.. but both places need serious immunisations, and why doesn't want that... she doesn't like vaccinations, very bad experience a few years ago... so I'm limited too...