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[Hypnotic]

Here's hoping, it's the first game in ages we have actually played well, not just left it up to the poms to play poorly

[Adam]

This was my lunch

[Hypnotic]

Pete, you cook and have someone who deals with front of house for you so that you don't have to deal with the general stupidity that comes in to consume said tasty eats.

 

And let us sit out the back, talk shit and eat good....similar to what you guys do at Ichiban

[B4TT]

That does look like a tasty sandwich Adam. I might cook up the flathead and have that for lunch I think.

[Hypnotic]

Looking at getting a torque wrench, doesn't need to be amazing, but it's going to be used mainly for when I take the wheels off and on the car

 

Any good?

 

http://www.bunnings....wrench_p6116683

[peteRS]

...but my mum would cook you a batch if you came here... LOL! She loves cooking for people and over feeding them... 

 

I want to eat there too

 

Cooking for one is shit, that is for sure, so I'm gonna go hook my mate up with a feed...catch you guys later.

[peteRS]

Torque wrench for wheels??? That Is the last thing I'd bother with...just breaker bar those bitches, you know, to that exact tightness that 'feels' right.

[Adam]

Ash, can't see why you would need a great torque wrench for things like wheel nuts! The clicking ones are easy to use.

Just make sure it can be set to te settings required!

[Zac]

So guys who care... here is my story... kind of the watered down version... if too long to read, no worries

 

 

Anyway, I am currently sitting in my old room in my parent's house as I type this, living here because Megan told me I have to get out because I am an angry and stressed person, she hates me and she's done with the marriage. It has been hard for a long time now, since she doesn't feel like she is meant to be a mother, so she hates her life, and no matter what I do to try to help her, and I do so bloody much, it isn't enough and she just hates me.

 

So I'm sitting here, looking for a place to rent, not wanting to be a burden to my parents at 29. Plus I still have to pay the mortgage in the house she is living in because she has the baby there and I do not wish to kick either of them out or make things hard for them.

 

I moved out for a month last year around this time too because Megan and her mother, the devil MIL, literally told me to get out becase they say I;m a shite husband and father and a worthless man, so get out or they'll call the cops on me... all this while I was sitting in my garage staying away from them... doing nothing bad.. but anyways... so I left... Megan changed her mind after a month and I moved back in, things were good for a while... then went back... lots of ups and downs, and now she has had enough trying with me and just wants out... so I have to listen... which is why now I am separated.

 

Anyway, stressed thinking about where I'm going to live, whats going to happen with my marriage, how my daughter is going to be and what the future holds... yeah... thats about it...

 

 

 

Sorry for the big read guys... but thats what happens and yeah, just sharing this with a bunch of mates here...

[Hypnotic]

Laters Pete!

 

 

Or is a 3/8 square drive better http://www.bunnings....mtw80f_p6100366

[B4TT]

Looking at getting a torque wrench, doesn't need to be amazing, but it's going to be used mainly for when I take the wheels off and on the car

 

Any good?

 

http://www.bunnings....wrench_p6116683

Why would you want that for your wheel nuts?? madness haha.

[Adam]

That sucks, Zac! I can't offer advice, but can offer friendship!

[B4TT]

Torque wrench for wheels??? That Is the last thing I'd bother with...just breaker bar those bitches, you know, to that exact tightness that 'feels' right.

Exactly!

[Adam]

For reference, I have a 1/2" drive wrench with a 1/4" adaptor

[Hypnotic]

Shit go Zac, doesn't sound healthy at al and doesn't seem like it's doing either of you any good, not too mention what may impact onto the little one.

 

Unfortunately, never being in a situation like that, I can't offer any advice other than you have my number (just not at 3am, that's Ash time )

[Zac]

That sucks, Zac! I can't offer advice, but can offer friendship!

Haha... thanks mate.. not looking for much really... but friendship is always appreciated... LOL!

 

Nothing much I can do but roll with it... go with the flow and try to find a place, move in there and see what happens... It takes 1 year from separation to divorce... so blah... we'll just see what happens...

 

As you might be able to tell, this has been going on for a while, which is why I'm stressed sometimes on here... don't mean to be, but when work is shite and home is shite, there really isn't a safe place for me... lol!

 

Oh well... thanks Adam...

[B4TT]

Yep, if you need anything Zac just ask!!!

Can't say I would be as generous as you though, I would be booting her out quicker than I could pick up the phone, it's your house mate!!!

[Hypnotic]

Why would you want that for your wheel nuts?? madness haha.

 

 

Exactly!

 

 

Torque wrench for wheels??? That Is the last thing I'd bother with...just breaker bar those bitches, you know, to that exact tightness that 'feels' right.

 

Okies, that's some good answers, all I needed

 

 

Ash, can't see why you would need a great torque wrench for things like wheel nuts! The clicking ones are easy to use.

Just make sure it can be set to te settings required!

 

 

For reference, I have a 1/2" drive wrench with a 1/4" adaptor

 

Cheers, I already have that so I am set.

Yep, if you need anything Zac just ask!!!

Can't say I would be as generous as you though, I would be booting her out quicker than I could pick up the phone, it's your house mate!!!

 

You and I are scarily similar

[peteRS]

Ok Zac, that is way too much for you to deal with by yourself. You need friends and their 'right hemispheres' to bounce off.

It actually sounds to me like Megan may have reasonably severe 'Post Natal Depression' and this is going to be a massive challenge for you, but I have a few suggestions for you that I'll talk to you about in person.

I know you are doing it tough right now, but you have made the right decision to share...we can help

 

Vulnerability is courage.

[Adam]

It's crazy that you are both single....